KeySafe Frequently Asked Questions
What is a KeySafe?
A KeySafe is a small electronic safe that has been modified so that it can be controlled from a web page.
Since a web page is used for control, the safe can be located in one place and controlled from another. We call
it a "KeySafe" because keys are one of the main things we think someone would lock inside the unit. The idea
is to allow long distance control of access to the contents of the safe.
Do I need to have a KeySafe to use this site?
The majority of our members do not have a physical KeySafe. You are welcome to use the features of
this web site with or without a physical KeySafe and the site can be useful in both situations.
Also please note that there are no membership charges associated with the keysafe.org web site.
What does a KeySafe cost?
We no longer offer plans and we now discourage people from building their own Keysafe. The total cost for
materials and labor exceed what our fully assembled models run. Also the do-it-yourself model is now
obsolete due to several required items being no longer available. We now offer completely assembled, ready to use,
Keysafes, in models ranging in cost from $50 - $595. If you
would like buy a Keysafe, see this page.
How is a KeySafe used?
Typically a KeySafe is used to lockup a set of keys for a chastity device. The person who wears the device
(Wearer) has the safe at his/her location, but control of the safe is by someone else (Holder) at a (possibly)
different location. This way the person controlling the safe, controls when the device wearer has access to
What if you do not have a partner?
In addition to controlling KeySafes, these web pages are designed to help you find a partner, whether you
are looking for a Wearer or a Holder. There are profile pages available so you can advertise your interests.
There is also a feature called "Strict Mistress" which can control a KeySafe for those
without a partner.
What is Strict Mistress?
Strict Mistress is a computer simulated persona who, if you chose, can grant you permission based on
a complicated algorithm. She enjoys controlling both boys and girls. She offers many levels of "strictness"
depending on the degree of denial you wish, anything from
a few minutes up to years between releases is available. If you have a KeySafe, Strict Mistress
can control when the safe unlocks, making the permissions very real.
What does a (human) Holder need to control the KeySafe?
A Holder needs an Internet connection, and an Internet Browser. From the Holder's point of view,
controlling a wearer's safe, is as easy as browsing any password protected web page.
What does a Wearer need to hook up the KeySafe?
The wearer will need an Internet connection, a computer and a web browser. Different Keysafe models
have different requirements in addition to these, see this page for details.
How does a KeySafe work?
The Holder clicks on a web page button to indicate that an unlock is
allowed. At some later time, the Wearer logs onto the web site's unlock page,
and the web page will directly or indirectly opens the safe. The Holder can
also set a large number of options to make the chastity experience more
interesting, including adding games of chance, and hidden "windows" that must
be discovered to earn a release.
How can I access the KeySafe web pages?
On order to access the KeySafe web pages, you need to setup an account. We want to limit access to those
persons who have a genuine interest in chastity, orgasm control or related topics. However, setting up an
account does not obligate you to buy a KeySafe, offer your keys to anyone, or to play with Strict Mistress.
To setup your own account, Click here. Or if you already
have an account, Click here.
How do I join the chastity mailing list?
The chastity mailing list is not active these days. We recommend you join Chastity Mansion
for ongoing discussions about chastity.
Do you have any advice regarding the kind of profile to post here?
The reason you are posting a profile is to let others get to know a bit about you. If at all possible, post a
picture of yourself. My suggestion is to post a completely ordinary picture, the kind you would send to your
mother. That way if someone were to ever misuse the picture, by posting it someplace else, there is no harm done.
Be aware that all uploaded pictures are reviewed before they are made available for general viewing. Due to new US
regulations regarding web site, nudity is not allowed. In the text areas, we encourage you to post as much
information as you can, and do try to be honest. Deception will typically be discovered later to everyone's
Why doesn't the BACK and REFRESH buttons work like I expect on the Strict Mistress pages?
Never use the BACK button or REFRESH button when visiting Strict Mistress, doing so will usually not
do what you wanted and She will usually become annoyed with you. You can click on one of the "STRICT" links
at the bottom of a page even when already on a Strict Mistress page. That will work